Studies show creativity boosts intimacy. Our out-of-the-box date ideas are designed to move couples out of their rut and into a place of vitality. We realize some personalities prefer unconventional adventures while others prefer a more subdued date. While we certainly have some adventures waiting for those who seek it, for the dates that are particularly unconventional, we have a “conventional substitute” just for our low-key folks. Either way you choose, you will be sure to break out of the humdrum cycle of dinner and a movie.
When your spouse is upset, listen carefully. Then repeat back in your own words what you heard. This is not to say you agree, but to make sure you understand what they are saying and to attempt to see from their perspective. Do this before interjecting your own feelings, opinions, or advice.
Husbands, from your phone, text the word "groom" to (833) 996-3056. Wives, from your phone, text the word "bride" to (833) 996-3056.
Bring life back into your marriage with our marriage challenges. Men and women typically have different needs and desires. Unfortunately, we tend to show love the way we receive love, and therefore "miss the mark" in showing love to one another. The marriage challenges are suggestions for you to do with, or for, your spouse to help you better meet your spouse's needs & desires and to put the spark back in your marriage. In addition to weekly texts to enhance the romance, you will receive a monthly suggestion for transforming your mindset and/or the way you deal with one another so you can resolve issues in a healthy way. The marriage challenges will come straight to your phone via text. Focus simply on following the prompts and you will see your marriage transform.
"IF A HOUSE IS DIVIDED AGAINST ITSELF, THAT HOUSE CANNOT STAND.”
Discuss it – In what ways have you been trying to compete instead of working as a team?
Don’t answer this next one out loud or accuse your spouse. Just give this one some thought. Have I been putting my spouse down to get them to view me as the superior one? Where have I been trying to compete instead of support?
In what ways could you and your spouse be working together better?
Discuss the jobs being done in your home. Are they being done by the person who has the strength in that area?
Pray over it – Dear God, thank you for connecting me with [spouse's name] and for [list out your spouse's strengths]. Please transform my mind to see my spouse as my teammate, not my competitor. Teach me to show respect to my spouse. Help us to be unified in our decision-making. Amen.